March 31, 2006
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"give to him who asks of you"
Yes, three entries in one day is more than usual. But this has been an unusual week. I have been "stirred up" more than usual, though only my private journal has seen the majority of it.
Lately I've been wondering more about this phrase in Jesus' teaching - Matt. 5:42 - "Give to him who asks of you, and do not turn away from him who wants to borrow from you".
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Does that mean that if someone walks up to me and asks for my car, that I just give it to him? Or is it only an "in-need" response, as in I give it to him if he has need of it? If a beggar on the street asks me, not just for five dollars or for a meal, but for my whole wallet, do I give it? If one of you fellow Xangans sent me an email asking me for a thousand dollars, ought I send it?
If a man walks up to me and asks for my child, do I give him or her to the man?
"If anyone wants to sue you and take your shirt, let him have your coat also. "
Wow. How far do I take this? !?
Comments (5)
what if a man wants to take your shirt and you give him your pants too? would you have not given the right thing?
Exactly...
Hi, Tim.
I was wondering if you'd like to email me your next response to Guyfawkes and/or Spoonwood. I'm thinking I'll just post it as a new post instead of having it buried as the 100th comment. This is also because there're a few new posts on deck (from others) and I think what you're discussing is also important. But it's up to you.
I admire the way you speak to them "with gentleness and respect." Thanks for bringing that to AFTR.
God bless.
thanks for stopping by.
i couldn't help but read your thoughts here... and i'm beginning to wonder if the secret to obedience is tension; by tension, i mean holding God's commands next to each other and walking between them. for instance, the command you're looking at is basically "give to those who ask." but you're right... how far do we take that? i think God's other commandments clarify that for us. for instance, if someone came and asked for your child... you have to consider God's commands about providing for your family. would giving the child away be a compromise of your responsibility to provide for him/her? what about not provoking your children to anger? if you gave the child away, would that provoke him or her to anger? what about loving your child? would it be the most loving thing, given how children are created to need a family and a sense of security? would giving your child away carry with it the appearance of evil? because we are commanded to avoid that.
along similar lines... what if a xanga user asked for 1,000 dollars? well... you would have to consider whether or not money is an area of weakness for that person (eg. if they have a problem with gambling or some such thing). if it is, to give them the money might cause them to stumble... which is a violation of one of God's commandments. God also tells us to be good stewards of what we have been given; would giving that person 1,000 dollars be exercising good stewardship over the gifts God has given to you? or could it be better used if you gave it to overseas missionary efforts or inner city development projects?
all that said, can i have 1,000 dollars?
kidding!!!
Hi, Tim
I have recently published a new post on my xanga, and am hoping to garner as much discussion and debate as I can, as I do not update very often, and contraversy is usual absent. I invite you to partake of any debate you may have, although I'm not expecting you to, as I understand you are quite busy, and are often in the process of constructing replies to comments left by other users. Either way, I would particularly value your presence there, as not only are you of the opposing opinion of mine, but you are also quite polite and civil in your discussion. I appreciate your consideration. Much thanks!
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